why lie?

have you ever noticed you never hear the exact advice twice? as much as i would like to help people with their problems...before i do i get every detail I can...

details...those tiny miniscule things that can change an entire perspective of a problem...figuring out people from their own truths and lies is probably one of the most complicated scenarios life has to offer...yet...that questioning of others' motives and true feelings...creates all the relationships we as humans have...


i personally try to never lie...i know...it sounds cliche...and you are probably thinking "yea right...everyone lies." you are probably right...when my friend is upset and her cheeks are all puffy...i will tell her she is still as gorgeous as ever so she can get up and feel better...however...when it comes to emotions...to feelings about something...i never lie...

it is so easy when someone does something that bothers or hurts you...to go tell someone else...but imagine if instead...everyone's first response was to go to the person directly...for them to know...instead of everyone else...

in the last few years...i think i have experienced more lies and contradictory actions then ever before...that just really makes me sad...yes...i was hurt...but moreso...it makes me wonder how people are living...imagine if we each started to be more honest and straightforward...maybe that trait would start to pass down...children see lying constantly and are bred for it...i think...we can make a difference...